Sunday, August 21, 2011

Motivating Self and Others

REQUISITES TO MOTIVATE

  • We have to be Motivated to Motivate
  • Motivation requires a goal
  • Motivation once established, does not last if not repeated
  • Motivation requires Recognition
  • Participation has motivating effect
  • Seeing ourselves progressing Motivates us
  • Challenge only motivates if you can win
  • Everybody has a motivational fuse i.e. everybody can be motivated
  • Group belonging motivates



Thursday, August 11, 2011

I Quote


If we can love someone so much- how will we be able to handle it the one day when we are seperated? And, if being seperated is a part of life, and you know about seperation well…is it possible that we can love someone and never be afraid of losing them? At the same time I was wondering if it is possible that, we can live our entire life without loving anyone at all?

Mew in Love of Siam

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Update


For the past one month and a half I have been -




Touring around schools in Bangkok to conduct workshops on ASEAN




Exploring and learning the unknowns of a foreign country




Having a time of my life mamasan-ing a group of diverse friends family



Inducted into a new fun loving family



And not forgetting to celebrate my twentieth birthday by simply living my life to the max!

Cheers everyone!

Friday, June 10, 2011

Finding Zen

It's 3 in the morning, and I am finding my thoughts drifting to my fellow EBs. Amid the work that I have to do, I am reminded of those fun, dodgy moments we had in the short span of 2 months. I guess 2 months really made such a difference.

Right now I am finding my own zen. It's almost 4 but I can see myself, back there with them, buried and overwhelmed. Funny, seeing how previously, all I wanted was to go back home and taste my Mum's curry chicken. Things are strange, but I guess that's really how things are.







We are ruled by our emotions at the end of the day. More so for me than what I initially imagined it to be.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Values

If our beliefs and actions are defined by our values, what are we when we act upon only to realize that they aren't align to others? Will it be seen as an selfish, bigoted act with ill intent? A most challenging act would be to balance oneself precariously on a thin line of faith trying to fulfill one's values as well as catering to the values of others.

It would be really nice to take a small break once in awhile. Away from all the paradox of juggling and not compromising. The thought of being back home. In my bed. Or catching up on the familiarities, friends and food is a comforting thought indeed.

But then again, at the back of it all, the same precarious act of constant balancing between values will forever more be around. At least for the next one term.

Until that last day of the term, I have to be a fighter. Holding on to my fort.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Day 28

Dear Association Internationale des Étudiants en Sciences Économiques et Commerciales,

You are an entity of wonder. As much as you are a pandora box to my GPA, you are also undeniably helpful. You brought new perspectives and new friends to my otherwise nondescript freshmen year. And most importantly, immersing in all things about you, I am beginning to perhaps realign my future prospects.

For starters, I am no longer attracted to the notion of a bank job from 9 to 5 dealing with the backdoor workings of a financial institution. Nor am I keen to crunch numbers all day long as an accountant. Although, I do not know exactly what I am keen to work with after my grad years, I suppose it will be completely different from what I imagine it to be as before.

Above and beyond career prospects, I am now looking at building a network of people. Of friends, confidants and long time buddies. With that much of hours spent in it, I am rather confidant that, I can start planning grand schemes to take over the world. In a literal and figurative sense of course.

So for the next one year, two or maybe even three years to come, you will see me around. That much is a promise.

Cheers,
Yours


Tuesday, April 5, 2011

A Moment Like This

There will be a point in time, where all the KPIs in the world and achievements will fall short to a single element. An element of self satisfaction; that peculiar sense of fulfillment encapsulate a complex array of emotions raging from being glad that it's over, being happy that no major hiccup or screw ups happened, feeling immensely proud of seeing how others are happy over seemingly straight forward stuffs such as printed t-shirts, black pepper chickens and blue passports measuring 120 by 80 to wishing things could be done better with the external speakers, welfare of the organizing committee, conference agendas and whatnot.

XPrep Conference: Experience the Change (02 April 2011)
I would be the first to admit that through out these two months leading to the conference, I bitched a lot. From all things small to big, I was critical, grumpy and worse of all I was harboring to the point of being a Financial Nazi that would have made Ebenezer Scrooge a happy father if he had me as a son. But looking back, I do think that it was this very green, foreign learning journey for all of us at the organizing committee side that gave this experience its particular twist of essence.

Hence, to all, thank you. For bearing with me and also for making this a success.